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Protected sex with transgender prostitute

Hi there,
Im worried a lot. I had my first and protected sex using condom 3days back. I had only 2minutes penetrative but removed out and ejaculated after 5 seconds in condom. But while removing the condom the fluid which was on the condom was on my fingers and used the same finger to clean the apex of my penis. Am i at risk to get std
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You basically repeated the question after given an answer. Please don't do that again. NO RISK. You had protected sex, not a risk. The only risks are unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV needle to inject drugs. Air inactivates the virus. Touching the condom with your fingers and then touching something else is zero risk.
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Thank you im afraid of the situation and can't get goodnight sleep and im always worried that ill get infected.
you've been answered though. Zero risk means no chance. If you are worried, that's anxiety and nothing to do with hiv. Anxiety is a disorder as well that one can treat. But you didn't have a risk for HIV
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (fluid , maybe blood etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You should stop worrying and move on from this non-event.
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Thank you for your response, I had penetrative sex with condom but removed it within 2minutes and ejaculated thereon after 5seconds. Im worried that cleaning the apex of my penis with the same fingers which i used to take out the condom could've affected me. I cleaned the apex of my penis immediately after taking the condom out.
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You explained the encounter well the first time and I advised that you had zero risk. Since you didn't answer the QUESTION in the advice I'll do it for you. Answer> No there wasn't a penis in my anus and the other person didn't inject me with a shared hollow needle during the condom sex so I had zero risk and should move on instead of wasting my own time asking pointless questions.
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