I forgot to mention I get headaches
I'm not sure of your question since you're all over the place, but here is what i can tell you. HIV is transmitted in adults by unprotected anal sex, unprotected vaginal sex and sharing needles used for drugs. if you wore condoms and they never broke (you'd know if they did) then you did not put yourself at risk. as far as testing goes, a 4th gen duo test is conclusive at 4 weeks, others at 12 weeks. hope this helps.
I guess I just wondered if the ars rash would be painful and itchy? I just was concerned as this is within the window period for it. My new partner stated he hasn’t been with anyone else in a few months but u just never know so I thought I’d ask. Thank you for taking the time to respond
You never had a risk. You tested negative at a time frame for a conclusive result with your first partner. You used a condom effectively with your second partner.
Since you never had a risk, your symptoms can not be related to HIV. Also, the nature of symptoms you describe are not in consistent with HIV. HIV related rashes aren't itchy and painful. They are maculopapular rash, which might looks like red bumps on a flat, red patch of skin.
I think you are okay. You might want to see a doctor for your discomforts, it is not related to HIV. Good luck.