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[Realriskhighrisk]

Here my story, 1 month ago I got really drunk and allowed my friend whom is hiv postive give me a blow job. The act lasted about 3 mins maxx. My states he has been currently UD for the past 2 years and was not bleeding during the encounter. I have no prove of his actually numbers, so I can only believe what he tells me.  I was very drunk and not aware if there were any blood evolved. I am sure there was no cuts of open wombs on my penis( I am cut). Well stated this past Saturday and Sunday I had a period of sneezing, then on Monday I got sick witch appear to be a cold sore throat ( which lasted about a day) followed by being extremely congested and a really low fever(99.3). I don't feel as bad now as did the first couple of days but I am now blowing and coughing up green mucus. I did get tested at the 39 day mark with the rapid finger test which was negative but I am awaiting my 4th gen test should be ready by next Tuesday. I also have had a brown/black tongue not sure if that's hiv related or not.
1.do my symptoms sound like ARS?
2. Is black/ brown tongue the same as thrush?
3. I think I am developing swollen lymph nodes in my right armpits

Pls guys help me I am really scared I really regret what I did.

[jogats33]

Your biggest problem is not HIV but drunkeness. Check on your drinking please because that seems to impair your judgement. As for de exposure,it is next to zero but please try to avoid Oral sex especially if u r not sure of any open wounds in your mouth. Nevertheless,you should be ok from this one.

[HowardH]

You can relax. Oral sex is risk free; HIV has never been known to be transmitted, at least not from oral to penis.

Does UD mean your partner's viral load is undetectable? If so, he isn't infectious at all; you wouldn't catch it even with unprotected anal sex, and for sure not by oral.

And the fingerstick blood tests are pretty much all 3rd generation tests, which are nearly by 6 weeks -- and if your symptoms were due to HIV, the blood test would be positive. Test results always overrule both exposure and symptoms, you can be very certain you don't have HIV.

1) These aren't typical ARS symptoms. You have a cold.

2) Discolored tongue isn't thrush. Minor viral infections can cause coated or dark tongue, so it's probably just from your cold.

3) It's hard to judge whether one's own lymph nodes are inflamed. But even if they are, your blood test result indicates HIV isn't the cause.

So there are many reasons for you not to be confident you didn't catch HIV. Your final blood test will also be negative. You can take it to the bank!

[Realriskhighrisk]

Sorry for all the mistakes in my post was really nervous when typing, just let me know if you can't understand my post