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Really need your help please!!

Hi there, I´ve already posted my thread. But I just cannot move on. So shortly: At the end of August I had unprotected vaginal sex, I´m a female. 5 weeks after that I had cold or flu, which was away after 4 days. After that I have swollen lymph nodes on my neck, groin and ear. I´ve taken duo test at 8 weeks, 11.5 weeks and 18 weeks. The boy who was my risk took 3d gen test after 3 months we spent the night and second one after 4 months - negative. I just cannot move on because my symptoms are still there, I have also white tongue. The problem is that I have a bf and yes, I chaeted him a didn´t realise what can happen (but didn´t tell him anything). And he is sick from that time. He had several tonsilitis, abscess in throat and now he again feels sore throat. I´m so scared - do you think that I need to take another test? I´m just thinking like there is mistake in the lab or something..Please help, what do you think? I took blood test in hospital for several diseasses because of the lymph nodes but everything was ok so that came be back to think about hiv. Can anxiety cause swollen lymph nodes? But what about my bf´s problem with sore throat..He has no idea about anxiety and hiv...Thank you so much for your opinions.
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Thank you. I´m just so stressed because of the weird symptoms as swollen nodes and white tongue..I´ve already visited therapist and I´m trying to move on..It´s ok for 2 days but than I start to think about the symptoms again and just feel like there is problem somewhere..Cause people from aids centre here said that it can take 6 months to develop antibodies if you have any immune problem.But this is very rare, like 1 human in 30 million...I know you said that 3 months is conclusive. And I hope it´s okay when his blood tests were okay. Anyway, thank you again for your answers.
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480448 tn?1426948538
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Positive-Oraquick-after-40-minutes/show/2431831#post_11819896

Your issue is your anxiety, not HIV.  We've already told you you don't have an HIV concern.
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Seek a therapist, nothing we can help you with since you will not accept your CONCLUSIVE test results.
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