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Regrettable Massage Palour Experience

hi Doctors and helpful people,

i went to a massage palour and got a typical massage. i was then tempted by the masseuse and oral sex with a condom ensued, we then proceeded to having vaginal intercourse with the same condom. i took precautions not to have any rough oral sex and intercourse was generally not vigourous. i was so scared, i couldn't even be hard enough to enter from behind. i eventually managed to get hard enough again and eventually ejectculated in the condom and quickly withdrew penis from her.

my questions are:

1. will any vaginal secretions on the base of my penis near the pubic region, be able to pass on any STDs?

2. are there any risks of HIV or STDs, assuming the condom was in tact by the end of the act (it seems intact and did not fail during my use)?

3. during removal of the condom i my fingers came into contact with any vaginal fluids that are on the condom, i then took tissues to clean my penis and pubic region, is there any risks of HIV / STDs again? (I eventually took a shower with soap but i know this doesn't matter)

4. It has been 12 days since this "exposure(?)", if I had contracted anything, what symptoms should I be looking out for? So far, I do not appear to have any symptoms other than stress and anxiety. No physical sores, bumps, burning or any thing out of the ordinary. Just that I keep checking my penis and pubic regions for any rashes and such.

5. Should I do a full STD screen, does anyone know how many tests this would involved and should I go immediately or are there window periods I need to wait for?

I know these questions have been asked time and time again and I have read countless posts. I would probably be happier if anyone could help me out personally to my questions. I would like to thank in advance, anyone who would take their time to reply me here. Do let me know if you're a health tech or doc or nurse too.

Any help, or perhaps even links regarding this topic is greatly appreciated.
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Thank you for your prompt reply, pertaining to this matter.

I have to admit though, I am anxious and worried also due to the fact that I am currently in a new relationship (which I guess you can call serious) and do not want to harm the girl I am together with.

I think I will still follow up with a doctor regarding my situation. Anyone else who wishes to reply me here is more than welcome. Thanks again!
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You didn't have a risk.
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