Hello,
I am a gay man, 26, never have engaged in anal sex. Weird, I know. But I am neurotically safe.
Since moving to NYC I have gotten naked with 7 men. All around my age. Never anyone older than 32.
We've engaged in unprotected oral sex, including me having very chapped lips and possible cold sore that wasn't totally healed (broken skin), and I enjoy getting fingered so I've also had my partners do that to my anus, even after they've touched their own penises.
Am I putting myself at risk for HIV this way?
Thanks.
It's cold and flu season...so to have colds frequently is nothing alarming. ARS symptoms aren't consistent with a cold anyway.
Again, ONE last time...the risks for HIV are:
1. unprotected vaginal or anal sex
2. sharing IV drug works
3. breast milk (infants only)
If you've done nothing on that list, HIV is not a concern. I'd strongly suggest seeking some help.