Risk of contracting HIV/AIDS from fingering?

[KwakuJN]

Hi, 6 weeks ago I spent the night with a prostitute in Accra, Ghana. I was very drunk so I can't remember the exact details, but I'm pretty sure she gave me unprotected fellatio for about 20 minutes. Then I fingered her for 5 to 10 minutes before having sex with a condom, not for too long as I was so drunk I couldn't cum so I just rolled off and passed out. I remember her putting the condom on me, and I think i remember taking it off afterwards, but it may have slipped down a bit while having sex.

My biggest fear is that the next day or the day after that I noticed a small black mark on the finger I had been fingering her with which looked like a scab/blood blister. It stayed there for a couple of weeks before i picked it off. I don't remember how i got cut (could have been a mosquito bite/pin prick or something?) so it could have happened while I was with her i guess. I don't rember there being any blood, but as I said I can't really remember. Could I have contracted HIV/AIDS through this cut. I didn't wash my hands until I got home and showered the next day.

Thanks. I've started seeing someone recently so am terrified that a) I could be infected myself, but moreover b) that I could infect her.

Thanks in advance for your help

[RainLover71]

You never had an hiv risk from the unprotected oral or the fingering,however it might be a good idea to test for other std,s.Hiv is transmitted via unprotected penetrative vaginal or anal sex,sharing iv drug works and by mother to infant.Your safe and can stop worrying.

[KwakuJN]

Hi, thanks so much for your help.

Do you mind if I ask what your qualifications on this matter are?

Do you know of any scientific reasons why the fingering could not be a risk? It seems that it should be if it was an open cut at the time, although i have read a number of times that there are no reported cases of HIV transmission this way.

Again, thanks

[KwakuJN]

Okay, thanks a lot. I'll sleep much easier tonight.