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Should I get Tested?

Sometime on either August 31st or September 6th(Can't find the exact date) I was with a girl in my room that evening.

I fingered her until she came close to orgasm, while I played with her breasts with my mouth(and possibly with the hand I wasn't using to finger her with). After fingering her, I believe I went into the bathroom to wash my hands. When I came back out, I pulled my penis out and she gave me a mammary sex( aka "Titty ****) until I climaxed on her chest. During the intercourse, my penis bumped against her spiked necklace, but since the spikes have rounded ends, I don't think I have anything to worry about.

Do I need to get an HIV test for this event?

I've read that both fingering and mammary intercourse are a "No Risk" for HIV. However, I was told otherwise by a "professional over the phone" -- she said Mammary Intercourse was a "Low Risk".

I don't recall having any cuts on my fingers on the night in question. Since it happened on a weekend, and I work from home, I rarely ever get cuts and I don't remember having any during that day. Though my anxiety "What if's?" try to get the best of me.

Just to be clear, she was a girl I use to see, and not a sex worker.
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Hi there.

It does not matter if it's a girl you used to see or a csw, we always imagine the other person has HIV when identifying a risk.

I can clearly state that you had no risk at all, you cannot catch HIV this way, there are three ways you can contract HIV, a *** w@@k is most definitley not one of them.

You do not need a test for this situation, never in a million years.

Best Wishes

James
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Correct in it would make a difference, or correct it would not make a difference?

I ask because I understand that receiving a hand-job, even if the giver has infected secretions on their hands, is a zero risk.  But I was wondering if the same rules apply if secretions just happened to be on a woman's breasts during mammary intercourse.

Thanks for the information!
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Correct, even if you had drank them directly from her vagina it would still be no risk :)
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Oh there's one thing I forgot to add on in my original question: If the girls vaginal fluids/secretions happen to get on her breasts(either by her touching them or I by accident) beforehand, would that make a difference in Mammary Intercourse being a zero risk? Hypothetical question.

Don't worry, I'm moving on from this. Just educating myself on risks. :)
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You're welcome :)
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James

Thank you so much for your replies. You've helped to clear my mind.

I just had to ask these questions since I'm about to enter a monogamous relationship, and just wanted to be sure I didn't contract HIV from that event.

Thanks a million!
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You are welcome :)

You are correct about my blanked word lol

You definitely had no risk and whoever told you otherwise needs to get eductaed.

You really are okay to move on buddy :)
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Hi James.

Thank you so much for your quick reply. I'm guessing a "*** w@@k" is a reference to Mammary Intercourse? Sorry I don't know how to uncensored text.

Just to be clear, the fingering is also a no risk, correct?

Sorry for my questioning. It's just disconcerting when a "professional" tells me one thing on the phone, while I read otherwise from different sources on the internet.  And this person I spoke to works at a social service organization that provides HIV/AIDS education and support to people. I guess they need more education themselves? *shrug*
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