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Should I get tested for insertive oral sex with someone who is confirmed HIV pos ?

I just had sex with a friend of mine a week ago, and it turns out that he is HIV positive. I didn't know his HIV status back then. There was no penetration whatsoever, and all that happened was oral sex with I being the insertive partner (my thing inside his mouth). That happened for around 3-4 minutes, and there was *no condom* when we did that. He is on medication (dolutegravir), and his viral load was undetectable when he tested two months ago. Do you think I need to get tested because of this incident ? I am kind of freaking out, any help is appreciated.

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Am agreeing with anxiousnomore that you had no risk from receiving oral sex even if he was HIV+.  No one has ever been documented case of HIV resulting from oral sex.  Air and saliva inactivate the virus.  So, you had no HIV concern. The only way adults get HIV is from unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles.
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
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