Strange circumstances

[chrisjjjjjj]

about a month ago i had unprotected oral sex with a women i met at the bar which then led to protected vaginal sex.  about half way through the condom started to slip down the shaft of my penis a little so i pulled out and removed the condom and replaced it with another condom and continued(worried vaginal fluid may have gotten on inside of new condom by way of fingers from first condom).  then finally i pulled out and removed the condom and she finished me with unprotected oral sex.

1.) how contaigious is hiv?  is there a risk for transmission from removing my first condom and putting on the second one(by means of contamination by fingers, its sure there was some degree of exposure here)

2.) after vaginal intercourse i removed my condom and she gave me oral.  if there was some vaginal fluid at the base of my penis that in turn would be drawn up into her mouth and posssibly my penis?  does this put me at risk?

3.) should i get tested because of this incident?

[chrisjjjjjj]

thanks for your help. i apprecialte it!

[hopeless4now]

still no risk...just think about it, before people have sex they usually engage in foreplay (i.e. fingering) which results in "contamination" of the fingers, hands etc. So, with this in mind the use of condoms will many times involve this type of exposure when people put them on after foreplay. People who use condoms don't get HIV...you are ok...nothing to worry about.

[chrisjjjjjj]

is what i meant by contaminated fingers is that when i removed the condom my fingers at some point wouls touch the end of my penis and in tuurn would also touch the inside of the new condom.  just so i completely understand..........that is still ow risk or nno risk?

[hopeless4now]

1.) HIV is not as easy to get (can be depending on a persons lifestyle and choices) as a lot of people think (ALWAYS protect yourself though). There are many known and unknown reasons why. One reason is that the virus has a relatively high id50 (infectious dose required to infect 50% of a given population). In general, it takes a certain amount of virus to enter the bloodstream of a person and the situation you describe is a no risk one ("contamination of fingers").

2.) Oral sex is really not a significant risk to worry about.  Cases are just not seen or documented in the clinical setting...and there's a whole whole lot of oral going on in the world...just think about that.

3.) If it were me I would not get tested based on this exposure. I fully agree with Teak that you were never at risk to begin with. However, if it calms your anxiety then have one, but expect a negative result...you did everything right...you used protection, which is just that, protection...best wishes.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk and you were never at risk. Get a condom that fits if you are having trouble with them sliding. They do make smaller condoms.