Please help! I'm an idiot and 8 days ago had vaginal sex with an African prostitute! She gave me oral sex without a condom for about 5 minutes, then we had protected vaginal sex in which she supplied the condom. We had sex for about 10 minutes. I could not ejaculate, so I gave up and pulled out. The part that worries me is that when I pulled out the condom was not on my penis. The tip of the condom was still in her vagina. So I'm not sure if I was exposed unprotected or not? She showered, then we proceeded to have protected vaginal intercourse again. This time it was for about 15 minutes and I couldn't ejaculate again so I quit. The condom stayed on this time and there was no break. She also used standard hand lotion as lube on the condom if that means anything?
I've experienced a multitude of symptoms related to ARS. The first 5 days I was just worried sick. The thought of HIV consumed me and I could not work or think about anything else! The anxiety was so great that I couldn't see clearly, stayed light-headed, and at times thought I was going to pass out! I also felt fatigued and would take a two hour nap after work. I would also dry-heave but I attribute that to just being so worried. On day 6, I develped a scratchy & mildly sore throat and lymph nodes started to swell. Day 7 was the same thing except now my tongue was completely white for two hour periods on and off throughout the day. It is now day 8 and my symptoms are the same as day 7. My appetite hasn't been as good either.
I'm in reasonably good shape and very rarely ever get sick, much less have a white tongue. Now, I'm worried sick that I have the symptoms of ARS! It is consuming me! Will these types of symptoms show this early after an exposure? I have read the statistics and probabilities and it has put my mind at ease at times, but I can't ignore these symptoms! Any wisdom you can share would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.