The risk is vaginal fluids getting on the inside of my condom which I then put on, which I read here on the pay forum is a slight risk .
While I know the risk is low, what worries me is that if the symptoms after 6 weeks were not ARS and were just cold/flu how come the girl I was kissing did not catch a cold/flu from me
There is no risk--you are being foolish.
Thanks. Stupid question, is it normal then if it was a cold/flu that she didn't catch it from kissing me when I had it?
are you really trying to determine your status by the fact that a girl didn't catch your cold?????
3 weeks ago the same girl was kissing my neck which had new shaving cuts and this week has bad neckpain and now headache. I'm terrified this is ARS and she caught from me
to add to this, it is painful neckstrain and one day a headache. No fever, sore throat, rash
You don't have an HIV concern.
Does her symptoms even sound like ARS as a matter of interest?
No, one doesn't have ARS without being infected.
if you has hiv...she didn't get it from you ! ! !
kindly move along...you do not have a hiv concern
Thanks for your responses. Me aside, I am wondering if what she has (pain in the neck since Sunday, 1 day had a headache) sounds like ARS generally
I just spoke with her there. She has never had neck pain like this in her life
You did not have an exposure and her neck pain has nothing to do with HIV.