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help!
I did something horrible, hope you can give me an answer.
I am straight and I have multiple sex partners.
Around 10 days ago, I had PROTECTED vagina sex and. UNPROTECTED oral sex for multiple times and with ending always ejaculated in her mouth with one of my partner. And the 5 days ago, she told me she tested for a positive result from a HIV test.
During the 5 days ( when I did not know her tested results)， I had UNPROTECTED vagina sex with the other partner and ejaculated into her for three times.
Now I am really worried, will my sex act would infect my other partner who I had UNPROTECTED vagina sex with.
After the event(around 7 days after the first event) I did a rapid test for a negative result ( I think it is purely for detect the anti-body) .
So my question is, should I test at 6 weeks? And will my behaviour infect my other partner?
Thank you very much, I can not sleep for 5 days, basically, I can not do anything!
I am straight and I have multiple sex partners.
Around 10 days ago, I had PROTECTED vagina sex and. UNPROTECTED oral sex for multiple times and with ending always ejaculated in her mouth with one of my partner. And the 5 days ago, she told me she tested for a positive result from a HIV test.
During the 5 days ( when I did not know her tested results)， I had UNPROTECTED vagina sex with the other partner and ejaculated into her for three times.
Now I am really worried, will my sex act would infect my other partner who I had UNPROTECTED vagina sex with.
After the event(around 7 days after the first event) I did a rapid test for a negative result ( I think it is purely for detect the anti-body) .
So my question is, should I test at 6 weeks? And will my behaviour infect my other partner?
Thank you very much, I can not sleep for 5 days, basically, I can not do anything!
You had no HIV risk and your test was a waste of time. You can't get HIV since you used a condom for vaginal and oral is not a risk. So you can't infect anyone else because you can't be infected yourself.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV.
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should i be tested again at week 6?
Please re-read the advice given. You had NO RISK. You did not need to test even once, and you certainly don't need to test again.
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