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Tijuana- Really need help from an expert


I was peer pressured to go to Tijuana strip clubs this weekend with some friend. I have some questions that I would like an expert to answer so I can be rest assured or go ahead with their following advice. My clothing was a jacket, some old jeans and a boxer.

The following activities have happened and I would like to know if any posses any risk of any std's such as Hep c or herpes or HIV or any that I didn't mention. Its been about 30 hours so I would like to know if I need PREP if any of the following activities below posses a risk for HIV or if it does for any other STD you can think off, please let me know how can I move forward.

- a sweaty stripper forced herself on me for about 10 mins. when she left I felt something liquid in my boxers( not her sweatiness) so I went to the bathroom and saw a dot in the size of my middle finger from the boxer and touches my urthera. Lets say this wasn't my penis discharging some **** from the hard grinding because It wasn't precum, does this posses a risk if assuming, the girl vaginal fluids went through my pants?

- another stripper came later on and had a red patch on her ***. I don't know if this is a beginning of a herpes outbreak or something she already has, I do have cuts in my hand( I'm around animals a lot) that got into contact with the stripper red patch a lot as she was ( all of them) were grinding hard on me. does this posses a risk for something such as hep c or  hand herpes( I don't know the medical term)- someone in my high school had it or another form of std/sti

- 15 mins later, another stripper kept rubbing her bare vagina on my thigh for about 5 mins straight. I felt a lot of  heat from her vagina and she did a lot of friction in that area. that exact spot had some pimples that I usually get, does this also posses a risk for any of the stds since I actually felt her vagina and heat right thru the jeans REALLY WELL like I wasn't wearing a pair of jeans?

- I decided to go for a hand job at the end, the stripper cut the Lube with her mouth, does this posses a risk such as HPV or herpes type 1?

Just to clarify after I broke up with my girlfriend I tested myself for stds and I was negative for everything including herpes type 1, so your thoughtful input would be great so an expert can help me go to the right direction

Thank you!! You're response would either rest me and my family assured or help me get into the right direction, thanks again for your time
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
There is an std forum for those questions but I doubt you have any herpes risk.
Thank you a lot for your input, I posted this in other STD forums and waiting for others who are knowledgable on the subject to answer. Thanks again for the help!!
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We only discuss HIV on this forum.  And as said, you had zero risk.  Only ways adults get HIV is from unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles.
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This is a moderated HIV prevention forum, there are no doctors or professional experts. However, tell you that there was no risk associated with your events, you don't need an expert.

Please read about HIV and it's transmission in the FAQ section of the forum and move on.
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