On a recent trip to S. America I had protected sex with a girl I meet in a bar (unknown status).
There are two parts of the encounter that have caused me some concern. Before we had sex I 'figered' her. I had two small healing cuts on my cuticle. I understand from this board that the cuts are not a worry. The other thing that worries me is whne we were first getting started she was not yet very wet. After rubbing her for a shot while I put my fingers in my mouth to get some spit on them. I did this two or three times. After that she was wet and we had potected sex. I had a small ulcer in my mouth about the size of a BB. It was not bleeding but it was whitish. This is my concern. I have read all over the internet that an ulcer in the mouth can pass HIV. Is thsi true?
I decided to post here to get the opions of those that are smarter than I am. Am I worring needlessly? I plan to not have sex for the next 3 months until I can get a conclusive test....and one last question. Are the home tests sufficent or should I go to a clinic?
Thanks for all the help. My intial google search was out of curiosity but now the more I read the more nervious I become.