Unprotected oral and rimming with a transvestite, HIV worried??

[Derekjdoyle]

Hi,

So on thursday I was with a transvestite sex worker. There was no sex involved. She rimmed my anus for a good while and also gave me unprotected oral on my penis in which I ejaculated into her mouth. I didn't see that she had any cold sores or open wounds in or on her mouth but it was dark so it's a possibility she might have had. As for the rimming I did have a slight open wound on or near my anus, so I'm worried if she had an open wound around her mouth maybe her blood transferred into my open wound leading to the possibility of HIV infection through blood from her mouth to the slight open wound on my anus. I'm also worried about the possibility with STDs from the unprotected oral.
Its only been 2 days but I have a dull/throbbing ache feeling in my penis, it doesn't hurt when I pee but there is pain at random times, it comes and goes. As for my anus it also feels uncomfortable also like a dull/throb aching pain similar to my penis pain. Im really worried guys it was a silly thing for me to do but when you are in the moment sometimes you dont think of the repercussions of your actions and now I am really worrying myself that I have contacted an STD or worse HIV. Please help guys and please be as honest as you need to be. Thank you
Derek

[GuitarRox]

I agree.  With no sex involved and the concern being oral rimming of your anus (with or without a wound), there is no risk. Saliva and air inactivate the virus. So, the only risks to adults is unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles.  You were not at risk for HIV.

[Derekjdoyle]

Thank  you for your response

[mike_no]

Oral sex is not a risk for HIV transmission. You were not exposed and don't need to test.

Below are the only risk for transmission in adults:

1. Unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse.

2. Sharing needles to inject drugs with other users.

I repeat, you were never at risk. Therefore, your symptoms were unspecific and they lean towards the effects of being anxious. If you are unable to get past this irrational fear, see a therapist.

[Derekjdoyle]

Thank you