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Urgent i badly need your help

Dear Doctors.. I’m sorry for my poor English but I’ll give my best. This is really urgent and for three months this makes me crazy.

I’m ejjhay from the Philippines. I really need your help. Last three months ago in January 1, 2010 I have a sex with a prostitute. The nature of my problem is like this. I used a condom while doing vaginal sex and she is on top of me and I’m in the bottom. Then after that I removed my condom I wash my penis, groin and anus with soap. After that she gave me a blowjob. After a few minutes I wear a condom again for a vaginal sex and I’m the one on top this time then I removed my condom and I didn’t wash my penis and groin then she gave me a blowjob for the climax.




My first question is, is it possible that a vaginal fluid have reach my anus when she is on top? And I think it didn’t because vaginal fluid dries easily outside the body am I right?  What is the risk from this situation?

My second question is if I had a very small cut in the hand that I used to wash my penis, groin and anus with soap. And I think if I had a small cut it’s almost 6 hours before I had sex with the prostitute. I’m not sure if I had a small cut or not. What is the risk from this
situation?

My third question is in the climax part when she gave me an oral sex she suck and lick my groin and the lower part of my penis. Is it possible that she carried some of the vaginal fluids to her tongue thru the head of my penis and infects me with an HIV?
What is the risk from this situation?


  5 weeks later on the first week of February i have cold. Then I got drunk and vomit due to over drinking then when I woke up my tonsil is a little bit swollen. After one week I got drunk again and over dink again and vomit again. This time when I woke up my tonsil is more swollen than before. But not to the point that I can’t eat and it did not cause enough pain. Three days later I ate a chocolate and it irritated my throat it feels like a sore throat. Then on the last week of February I can still feel that sore throat even when I attended a birthday party of my friend. We drink a lot of ice cold beer from 11pm-4am. Then when I woke up my throat is very painful. My cold lasted more than two months and my sore throat lasted over a month. I didn’t have any fever at all. Is this a symptom of HIV?

Follow up story my fiancé and I have sex on the second week of January 2010. Then on her fourth week after we had sex she had a cold. Her roommate has already a cold and cough before my fiancé have a cold and cough. Then two weeks later her friend offer her a food that she didn’t like because of too much cooking oil and it make her feel nauseous for four days. On the first two days of feeling nausea she vomits. Then on the first week of march she still have a cold and cough this time she had a low fever for 2 days. But no chills and body pain. My fiancé‘s cold and cough lasted for 2 months at the end of march.. Is this a symptom of HIV?  

At the last week of March my fiancé have a pap test. The gynaecologist told her that she has a good result and only have bacteria which are normal because of female menstruation. My fiancé does have an HPV vaccine. What are the odds from the result of her pap test that she had an HIV? Her menstrual cycle is normal and didn’t change..          Thanks..  
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1163575 tn?1339478617
u need to go see a doctor regarding your health issues..not hiv related..
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hi, i'm still worried because i have a sore throat again, it seems that im always having a sore throat.. and i have a few sores but only small ones this past two months.. and when i looked my tongue it has a white color. but i dont know if its just normal.. is this a symptoms of hiv? i'm worried because i didnt check if the condom i'm wearing broke that night..  

also 7 days before my fiance have an pap test before she is taking antibiotics for her cold, phlegm and cough.. by taking a antibiotics would some how give her a good result for her pap test? tnx
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thanks a lot i really appreciated your answers on my questions.. you gave me a relief and a peace of mind. thanks kumar007 and I'm very sorry to teak.I'm really getting paranoid for almost four months that why i posted those questions. thanks and GOD BLESS
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· Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusive negative results or a no-risk situation will be based up the criteria MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
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follow up question please answer.. thanks a lot for answering my questions.. what if i had a redness in my inguinal area because i wear bikini brief.. and because of that it causes irritation on the skin of my inguinal area due to the friction of the cloth of the bikini brief and my inguinal area. what is the risk if vaginal fluid comes to cantact?
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1163575 tn?1339478617
1- no..no risk
2-no risk..
3-no..no risk
4-no
5-no
6-nothing related to hiv

you were never at risk by any of the method you described..you dont have hiv concern
you can move on with life without thinking about hiv

hiv is transmitted by-
from mother to unborn child
unprotected vaginal/anal sex
sharing of iv needles
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