It depends who you believe abdo. Per the conservative CDC and FDA, and the companies which make the tests who are covering their ***** legally, yes a 3 month antibody test is the only "official" conclusive test.
However, as I said...If you have HIV, at 3 weeks either the antigen or antibody test would be positive.
is an 81 days test conclusive?
Then you don't have HIV.... At 21 days if you have HIV either the antigen or antibody test would of been positive.
I had a test last week in London HIV Dou at 21 days post exposure - results were negative
Your risk is non-existent as already said by evenflow and worried. HIV does not transmit through receptive oral and fingering. Relax and move on. Whither it is United States, United Kingdom or Africa, rules of safe sex apply equally, regardless of region. Use condoms correctly and consistently, if intend to go for vaginal or anal sex.
No risk, HIV has never been contracted that way.
In 25 years of this disease there has never been one documented case of anyone catching this disease through fingering, that includes people who have been in your own situation. No risk man move on.