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What is my risk? Pls help really nervous!
Hi I had wanted to post this in the expert forum but saw there was no new questions allowed. I'm trying to find out my risk from two exposure last night. I will pursue testing when the time frame is up. Last night I saw person that I have known for over 6 years and been off and on. The last time I saw him was a year and half ago however we had talked frequently. I'm a 26 year old female. Last night I gave this guy oral sex in which he did not ejaculate however there was some precum. I had just been getting over a cold with a sore throat, cough etc does this increase my risk of hiv exposure due to the fact my throat might have been irritated from the cold ? My second question about th "2nd exposure" is I had vaginal sex with him. I saw him put a condom on, however the position that i was in i had my back to him during sex. I felt him pull out and then ejactulate on my lower back and top of my butt. Im concerned bc i it seemed like it was rather quick and I'm unsure if he had taken off the condom halfway through the act. If he did/didn't keep it on what is the risk from him ejaculating on my lower back and butt. I'm also nervous bc i had shaved everything and had some razor burn areas near my butt crack (sorry if this is TMI) I'm not sure if the sperm touched this area or not. I stood up fairly quickly and went to the bathroom to wipe everything off with soap and water. I had asked him about his status and he said he was fine. I'm not sure if he is being honest. Pls let me know my risk any advice would be helpful. I don't want to spend the next three mths completely obsessing about this.
Thank you again for the the reassuring comments. Would I ask the doctor for a specific test name? In the past, I've just asked for a blood test for HIV and other STDs, but am unaware of the name of the HIV test used. Would I just ask for a 4th gen test?
Hi there.
The **** on the back is No Risk, as soon as fluid hits the air, HIV is rendered inactive.
In terms of unprotected Vaginal, this is far less risk than Anal, even less risk if he did not cum.
I truly expect your result to be Negative, just make sure that partners use Condoms properly in future :)
Best Wishes
James
The **** on the back is No Risk, as soon as fluid hits the air, HIV is rendered inactive.
In terms of unprotected Vaginal, this is far less risk than Anal, even less risk if he did not cum.
I truly expect your result to be Negative, just make sure that partners use Condoms properly in future :)
Best Wishes
James
Thank you so much for getting back to me so quickly. I really appreciate it. In regard to him ejaculating on my low back/ butt, what would say is the risk if it dripped onto the razor burn area? or if it dripped by my anus? I feel like i was sorted shocked that he did that so I;m having a hard time remembering if it dripped that far. I just know I stood up very quickly. That is also great to know I can now test at 28 days.
Also just a general question is there less risk if you have vaginal sex where he doesn't come in you(pulls out) if a condom isn't used? or Does precum still carry enough of the virus?
Also just a general question is there less risk if you have vaginal sex where he doesn't come in you(pulls out) if a condom isn't used? or Does precum still carry enough of the virus?
Oral sex is No Risk...
You are most probably over thinking the factbtheunguy may have took the condom off, even if he had, and he had HIV, which he probably didn't, there is only a very slight risk of you contracting HIV.
There is no need to test at three months anymore, a 28 day test with a 4th generationtest is conclusive.
If you do test, I am certain that it will come back Negative.
Best Wishes
James
You are most probably over thinking the factbtheunguy may have took the condom off, even if he had, and he had HIV, which he probably didn't, there is only a very slight risk of you contracting HIV.
There is no need to test at three months anymore, a 28 day test with a 4th generationtest is conclusive.
If you do test, I am certain that it will come back Negative.
Best Wishes
James
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