What's the Real Deal in Giving Oral To a Man? SO conflicting

[jacobsquestion]

What is the real deal in giving oral sex to a man regarding HIV?

Dr. H say's it low risk, actually, very low risk...Dr. Bob says its minimal risk, but Dr. Gallant says its a medium risk.  What the hell are we to believe?  I like to give oral sometimes to guys never allow ejaculate in my mouth, but precum can contain the virus.  It's so confusing.  What is my real risk?  Any anal sex I Have or ever have had is with a condom with no breaks to date.  But Oral has me freaked out.  I thought about using condoms for oral but condoms, even flavored make me sick.  Anyway, what guy or girl uses condoms for oral?

What are you thoughts on the real risk of getting HIV from giving a guy oral?

[hope_Im_OK]

I know how you feel...Had a brief oral encounter in early April where i performed it on a man without semen...tested negative at 6.5 weeks...wondering if I should test again at 8 weeks?  Most people say I'm "good to go" with the 6.5 result...I wish I knew?

I think the thing that worries people like you and I is pre-ejaculate...darn that stuff ! :-)

I have faith that we will be OK...:-)

[mike_no]

Jacob,

If you remember what I told you the last time, if you told these doctors that you had oral sex with any random person who maybe /may not be infected, they would have told you '100 % No Risk' but the problem here is, since you told them that you were with a HIV + individual, they are just trying to save their own A.S.S and telling you low/minimal/medium.

Bottom line: Your question was not accurately answered by any of the doctor.

Refer to what Teak has told you, that is very correct and I promise, even you were with an HIV + individual, if oral was only your risk, your test will be NEGATIVE.

We'd talk once you get your result !

[Teak]

http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/drk/oralsex4.asp

[jacobsquestion]

Unprotected oral - no ejaculation and protected anal sex...no condom breakage....those are the risks.   But, it freaks me out still.  

[Teak]

There have been two studies of serocouples. One study is in it's 8th years. In both studies they use condoms for anal and vaginal sex and do not for oral. In the Spain study which has conclued was a ten years study and none of the negative person serocoverted. The other study which is still on going, which all have protected sex and unprotected oral and none of those that are negative have had a change in their status.