White tongue but negative test

[Goofyinlove]

Hi guys , im so happy that i found such a website like this one ,
Here's my story "" im 28 straight male , had unprotected oral sex she performed on me and i did it for her as well . Then we had sex for like 15 to 20 mins the the condom broke " bad luck " so i took it off and used a new one !! I was so horney i didnt think about anything at this time but finishing what i started ,, i know i was stupied and i'v should wash my penus or so but i didnt
Anyways before i cam i took the condom off and came on her body , using my hand that i used to fingur her :( " i know im so stupied "

I started to experiance alot of symptoms after this incident
1 fever for 3 or 4 days
2 night sweat for a week " it was very heavy "
3 pain all over my body
4 fatigue
5 i lost my appetite
6 lost almost 8 kilos  
7 thrush
8 white coated tongue , very heavy at the back of it and i can scrape the tip of my tongue but it comes back again
9 my lymph noods are swollen and hurts me " my neck "
10 my right leg is killing meee ! There's something next to my knee im not sure is it lymph nood or just a hurted muscle !  



I tested for. HIV many times all of them came back negative and all of them were antibodies test

4 weeks , 6 weeks , 8 weeks , 11 weeks , 13 weeks and 16 weeks  

All negative but still have most of these symptoms !

Tested positive for Hsv1

I didnt test for any other STD .

My concern is that i was with my girl friend and we were about having sex but right before i stick it inside her i took it of , im not sure did my semen got inside her or not but what im sure of is that my penis was touching her vagina .
2 weeks after she feels so tired and fatigue , she started experiencing white coated tounge as well , she is alwayes sick and had fever for couple of days !   I'll kill my self if im infected and passed it to her :(

Here are my questions

1 i know that my 16 weeks negative is conclusive but what are my chances to turn + when i test at 6 months mark  ?
2 is being infected with herpes may be the reason of all what i have ?
3 is being infected with herpes may dely mu body producing detectible antibodies ?  
4 i heard that ppl with thrush or white tongue means the immune system is weak ! Does it mean it might take me more to test positive ? If no and my immune system is ok why i have tgrush and white tongue
5 is oral thrush considered as an advanced stage of Hiv ? Like after years from untreated hiv u get yeast and thrush
6 what should i do to my Gf ? And why she experiance white tongue as well !!!


Thanks guys and sorrhfor my long story :)  

[Jixx315]

I have most of these symptom as you mention after an incident and I still have pain on my neck and I took the last HIV test after 7 months Negative... Would you please let me know what you been up to... Thanks

[Goofyinlove]

Thanks vance ,im so worried ,  i tested negative at 16 weeks though

Btw i made someother tests for chlamydia , gonorrhoeae and syphilis but still waiting on the results !

Wish me luck with my MRI :)

Thanks again

[Vance2335]

Your issue is nto HIV, nothing more we can tell you here.

[Goofyinlove]

I made some new testes and here are the results

Hepatitis C third generation negative

Blood and urine sugar
Blood was 90 random
Urine was Nil

Complete blopd picture


Hemoglobin 13.2 ref 14-18
Red blood cells 4.7 ref 4.5-5.5
Haemtocrite 39.8 ref 40-52 im worry about this one
Blood indices
Mch 28 ref 27.5-32
Mcv 85 ref 78-94
Mchc 33.2 ref 32-36%
platelets count 162000 ref 150000-400000
White blood cell count 5100 ref 4000-11000
Total polymorphs 45 ref 40-70%
staff 3%
segmented 42
Lymphocytes 45 ref 20-40% why im high here !!
Monocytes 8 ref 3-5% high here as well
Basophils 0 ref <1-2% is 0 low ???
eosinophlis 2 ref 2-3%

Im still waiting on the rest of my tests but why i have high lymphocytes and high monocytes while having low basophils ?

Thanks

[Goofyinlove]

Thanksteak , Btw im heavy smoker andi was thinking its white cozof that but when my gf's tounge turned white i went crazy :(

[Goofyinlove]

Thanksteak , Btw im heavy smoker andi was thinking its white cozof that but when my gf's tounge turned white i went crazy :(

[Goofyinlove]

Thank you

[Teak]

See your doctor if you are concerned about your white tongue, it has nothing to do with HIV.

[Goofyinlove]

Thanks Teak , could you please give me your opinion about my white tongue and why i passed it to my Gf ? What could it be ?

[Teak]

You don't have an HIV concern.