well about 9 months ago i had sex with this girl,and it was unprotected and i thought nothing of it. then about three months ago i had what they claimed was a bladder infection, and also during that time i had the flu or symptoms of the flu. a couple of days ago i got sore throat almost instantly, then came symptoms of nasal congestion, stiffness in my neck, headaches, and i kept getting light headed....and i know all of those symptoms which i listed could be many other thing what are my chances i have hiv?????