I know I may get criticised for asking something thats already been asked but I had sexual contact with a masseuse three and ahalf weeks ago and whilst there seemed to be no penetration I was still concerned about exposure to breast milk and vaginal fluids. Whilst Teak has put my mind at rest on the breast milk, I have still developed muscle pain and a sore throat. I am encoraged that I seem to have no rash or fever. However I am worried that some sites suggest that even a sore throat alone can be a sign of developing hiv. Dr HHH seems to suggest that if fever is not present then there is almost no chance of hiv/ars. Can anyone explain the conflicting views. I know my exposure was low risk but am concerned that these symptoms have remained for some weeks now