don't understand

[anxious3191]

can anyone tell me what does "anal unprotected sex" mean?
does it mean if someone rubs his penis without condom on your anus but not inside is not anal unprotected sex?
i really need help from you guys.
another issue: can a bit a sperm of a guy on the shaft of the receptive penis cause infection, with no abrasion or any open sore or whatsover? the receptive is circumcised.
i really need help

[anxious3191]

it is not like that Teak. i thought that rubbing an anus with a penis without a condom is considered unprotected anal sex. that's my point but as Joggen said that it is not as long as there is no penetration.
don't get me wrong. i am not a native English speaker. well, maybe my English is not as good as yours.
thanks anyway for your help.

[Teak]

The point was you knew what protect anal sex was back in December and now you don't?

[anxious3191]

thanks Teak, but that was an old exposure. what i am talking now just happened 50 days ago.
thanks
from what joggen said that i did not have risk coz it was no unprotected penetration but it was a penis rubbing my anus better say my ******* too.

[Teak]

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/worried/show/715101?personal_page_id=355105&post_id=post_3787541

Move On..

[joggen]

no insertion = no risk. As you by now must understand, you did not have unprotected sex, therefore, you didn't have a risk.

There is nothing more to discuss.

[anxious3191]

well, he did not insert it, but just on my a-s-s-h-o-le. well, he is a masseur and he doesn't practice unprtotected anal sex. he was putting a condom aside waiting for me to finish my shower. so you mean that if he'has got some precum on his penis and touches my *******, will not cause any HIV infection since he did not penetrate it. as you said he was trying to seduce himself so that his penis will be aroused.
so HIV can't be transmitted through this activity?
i appreciate your help alot.

[joggen]

Then from what you described it sounds like you avoided unprotected anal sex, even though you/your partner appear to have been right at the boundary of it. But you're the best person to judge that, not me.

None of the other activities you describe are a risk either.

But in the future please do not get in the habit of flirting with unprotected sex as the next time you might not be so lucky.

[anxious3191]

thanks so much for your clarifications, Joggen
one more thing is that the penis was rubbing my ******* but outside , there was no dipping at all just a slightly pressure on my *******. that's it. i washed my body straight after.
after that i went for oil massage so the guy performed that on me. he fingered me while he is massaging my ***. he licked my ******* once for 3 or 4 seconds. and then i was a receptive for anal sex with a condom then he took his penis out and ejaculated on my stomach
is there any risk, please?

[joggen]

"anal unprotected sex" refers to any penetration of the bare penis into the anus. It includes  "dipping", where just the head is inserted.

Rubbing the penis _outside_ the assh*le does not qualify as anal unprotected sex.

Regarding your last issue....if you're referring to semen contact from another man on your penis through mutual masturbation, that is no risk whatsoever regardless of abrasions, sores, or circumcision of the "receptive penis".  

[Victoria60]

Penetration without condom is unprotected sex..