Back in June I had protected sex with a csw and I think I got some of her fluid on my urethra during cleanup which was about 5 min after sex. I have been told numerous times this is a no risk situation but I just got married 4 weeks ago and now my wife is experiencing dizziness, a headache, and a tired feeling.
She was exposed to people at work who had the flu and now her mom also has the flu. I'm just curious if there is any way she may be affected now. I'm scared.
One last thing while I'm thinking and its never been mentioned. I had a redness between my leg and scrotum about a week or two after my contact with the csw. At first it was just on the right area bw the leg and scrotum in the crease and I put antibiotic ointment on it and it went away in a day or two. Then a couple days later I wore the same pants and it came back but on each side this time. It was just red skin, no bumps or discoloration beyond just red skin. At first I thought it could be.the wool pants bc I went commando both times but now I'm very worried. I haven't worn the pants since and it went away within a day or two. Does that sound like the ars rash?
Thoughts please.