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help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

About 10 Days, i engaged with this girl i really like who has HIV, I didnt engage in intercourse, she sucked me and i figured her.  The fingered i used on her had a small cut it wasnt bleeding and i dont even think it was open to infection, because i use alcohol on it to see would it burn and it didnt.  After i came  i begin to feel stupid and guilt.  I talked to her after and asked if she had any bleeding gums or anything and she said no. I jus would like to know do i need testing and was the acts between us SAFE???  I am freaking out.  YOu know i usually ask her about her VL and that other stuff. She isnt on any meds that i know of.  I have been on different websites and i cant find anything to be the truth because there are so many different opinions out there.  some say there is a risk for a male receiving oral. Was i safe and do i need testing over this???????
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1 more question?  Why isn't HIV transmited by having a cut and fingering? Im just want to know why, I'm going crazy!
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648017 tn?1247999424
because it can't be transmitted orally.  it can be transmitted via saliva.  other sites aren't up to date.  teak is an expert, an expert.  he has done plenty or research and there is no evidence that says that receiving oral is a risk.  you were never at risk.  move on with your life.
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Why only unprotected sex ? Why do most say cuts and receiving oral is a risk for transmission?
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Unprotected anal and/or vaginal sex.
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What exposes me to HIV?
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also after i finished i put some hand sanitizer on it to see would it burn, and it didnt? so could it have jus been dead skin?  because if it was open it should have burned a little right????Oh did i meantion that it was around the cuticle base of the thumb nail??
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648017 tn?1247999424
no risk.  none of what you said exposes you to hiv.
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Would the finger have had to be bleeding? And does the alcohol thing make a difference?
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Are you sure?
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755829 tn?1246919225
You were not a risk of HIV here, no need to test.
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