i am a white male, not iv drug user, she, her ex boyfriend and the virgin he slept with were also white and all not iv drug users, i have a naturally paranoid nature, is there anything to really worry about? please help for past 6 months i havent slept comfortably and have experience quite severe depression
You put yourself at risk by not using condoms. You can test now and obtain a conclusive test result.
realistically do you think i have it?
I don't guess when it comes to HIV and someone's health. Test get your results and it will be conclusive.
i dont think i can bring myself to get tested though, like she had sex with two virgins, there is no reason for her to have it, i didnt ejaculate inside her and arent the odds already extremely against me having it?
You don't know that they were virgins or not. Go test.
I do know that they were virgins though and is it worth the extreme stress of awaiting results when the probabilty is very high that i dont have it?
also her ex had protected sex with the other virgin, i really dont see how i could possible have it where all the factors are against hiv presence
Did you use a condom? NO. TEST then move on.
i dont think its necessary to get tested and undergoe that stress for no reason when i quite cleary dont have it
Then move on. There was no need for you to post in this forum if you are so educated in HIV transmission. You didn't need any advice from anyone on this forum.
well i just wanted some advice, i dont think testing is necessary when the odds are so against me, the stress of hiv has driven me mad for ages and all the information i have would lead me to suggest i cant really have it, i think i will get the 60 second test though, i just wanted some information from someone like yourself who is educated for example the probability of transmission from her to me, i didnt just want a single line respone telling me to get tested, i wanted some information which i hope you can give me x