3 months post exposure and you can receive a conclusive test result.
the slight fever turned into a full blown fever and my neck feels really sitff and sore
Please try NOT to use the terms "CLEAN" or "DIRTY" when referring to people with HIV. Your symptoms are beginning way too late for HIV ARS. As Teak has told you a test @ 3 months will tell you your status CONCLUSIVELY. Female to Male HIV transmission is difficult and even more so after only 1 episode, but it DOES happen. The odds are greatly in your favor especially because she was most likely NEGATIVE. From here out, I regardless of how horny you are, ALWAYS use a condom during vaginal or anal sex .