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hello i am gay , from the past few months i have been very active , i have had anal sex 2 3 times and one time i was a bottom , i used condoms for anal sex all the time , but i never used a condom for oral sex , 30 plus people have sucked my dick and i sucked 2 or 3 without ejaculation , some people even fingered my anus and i also fingered them. now after so many experiences , i kinda feel that i might have HIV because of meeting so many people , so my question is should i be scared or get tested or am i fine .
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (for oral someone's lips, mouth, saliva, penis, fluids etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are only 3 ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe.
You can't get hiv when you used a condom, so it doesn't matter how many times you do something that is no risk.
You don't need help - you had zero risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe.
You can't get hiv when you used a condom, so it doesn't matter how many times you do something that is no risk.
You don't need help - you had zero risk.
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Alot of doctors online say that oral sex and fingering do have a risk but its very very low, i am worried about the low risk as i met alot of people so the risk can build up by time.
I'm not sure why you asked a question for advice here since immediately afterwards you tell me that you know the answer and I don't. This is not an anxiety forum so I can't resolve your fears. If you want to keep googling for death all day you are guaranteed that you will continue to be worried about things that have never happened because there is always a site that will tell you it can happen.
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