can you expand on that teak. How was I never at risk?
Receiving oral sex is not a risk for hiv infection. Period.
Saliva is not infectious.
Insertive oral is no risk. Receptive oral is extremely low risk. Studies of sero-discordant couples which detailed thousands of acts of unprotected oral resulted in no seroconversions of the negative partner.
how did you find out he/she was a man? did he/she look like a woman? did you see his/her genital region during this encounter? thanks