HIV Prevention Community
53.2k Members
I live in the New York suburbs. I have had several massages at local massage parlors, never sex but handjobs. On several occasions the lady giving the massage would put her lips on my penis and sometimes even spit on it. As soon as i realized i would tell her to stop. I have also had unprotected sex with one girl that lives locally about 2 years ago and I am really concerned that i might have hiv. My wife and i are 9 months pregnant and she has just been diagnosed with shingles. I just took a hiv test for a life insurance policy and now i am freaking out! If i somehow gave my wife hiv i would just die..

Please help!
1 Responses
1086863 tn?1278630315
shingles is from aids. not hiv.
i got shingles when i was 20. shes pregnant, the body undergoes very strange things during that time.
as far as the unprotected sex, she would have to have it to give it to you which is low risk anyway. less than 1% of the u.s. has the disease. not 80% like tv and google says.
Have an Answer?
Top HIV Answerers
366749 tn?1544695265
Karachi, Pakistan
370181 tn?1428176748
Arlington, WA
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
These tips can help HIV-positive women live a long, healthy life.
Despite the drop in new infections, black women are still at a high risk for HIV, the virus that causes Aids.
What are your HIV treatment options, and how do you choose the right one? Our panel of experts weighs in.
Learn the truth behind 14 common misconceptions about HIV.
Can HIV be transmitted through this sexual activity? Dr. Jose Gonzalez-Garcia answers this commonly-asked question.
A breakthrough study discovers how to reduce risk of HIV transmission by 95 percent.