I'm really paranoid

[AlexIL]

Well I'm really young..
and recently learned about std infections etc.

Well it's been a week since i had unprotected sex, oral and vaginal and like every night im worried that i might have any STD infection. Like sometimes i feel like crying;

Anyways well; That day i had sex , i saw dark spots on my penis-head and was really scared and anxious but those dark spots were just bruises i think, since it went away after 1-2days;
And thinking that i might have aids it makes me harder to breathe etc. Like I'm really scared now can someone clear up the bruiess or darkspot or can someone tell me what they were; I just really need someone to make me calm down; Like tell me that there's nothing wrong, Im too young to take STD test's and i'm scared of telling my parents too.
Sometimes when i think of having std it makes my lower testicles itch well like just once this whole week; After that sex i felt like lost of energy like my penis was iritating me it's like something scratching it inside - doesn't really hurt though, its just iritating[is it just because im anxious?]; Like when i pee it's kinda warm now or idk because i didnt really notice it before but now im really paranoid that i think its burning. And sometimes when i think of it i get hardtime breathing[is it coz im paranoid?]


p.s. her teeth hitted my penis, so i thought it was that but im still not content that it went away

Please please some medical professional give me advice about this, I hate it because i think of it everynight and get really scared.. I just to get relieved and get answered by a professional since i can't go to a doctor my self-scared- I just need some clarification to be relieved..

[diver58]

Advices given to you by Joggen, Nursegirl and oldskool80. If you still need more,,, here it is,,,,,,,, You are young, may be in senior high school or so, focus your attention towards your studies and career preparations,, you will have ample time for your sexual activities later and meanwhile do study the safe sex practices

[AlexIL]

Thanks for the advices, I know i would useprotection from now on.


But im still scared..still havent checked up;;

Someone please give me more advice..

[oldskool80]

bro..
being unprotected will put u at risk...
i've been in ur situation before...anxious, panic, stressed, scared..
after being unprotected...
but be strong to get tested...we have to know our status..
Everything will be fine...
as per Nursegirl's advise...Learn from our mistake..
I learned a lot form her and other experts in this useful forum...
Better be safe next time...
Luck is not always on our side...

[AlexIL]

^ Thanks for the info, I would tell my friend and try to go there..


Anyways right now i'm really scared and giving me chest pain because there's white patches on my penis, small one and one under the penis's head, I have no idea if this just appeared after my first unprotected sex or was it here for a long time. However when I think of it it always itches, or sometimes itches. Anyone know what this is? I'm really scared someone pleas give an advice to get me atleast relieve a little bit. =[

[nursegirl6572]

Since you are a minor...planned parenthood is the way to go...you can get a full STD panel without needing your parents' consent.  It will be kept totally confidential.

Do not let your age or any other factor keep you from getting tested.  If you had unprotected anal or vaginal sex...then testing is warranted.

From now on....insist on a condom each and every time you have sex...there is NO reason not to.  That way, you will be protected from unwanted pregnancies, and STD's.  You are just starting out.....get into the practice of being safe.

[AlexIL]

Someone.. ?

[joggen]

Try your county health department or planned parenthood.

[AlexIL]

I know this is spamming but seriously..i need some advice..im so stressed with this thing and its making me do poor at school..

[AlexIL]

Fizzo thanks for the opinion, i really appreciate it ><;
I do want to get health checkup the problem is I don't want to tell my parents.. Is there anyway I could get a check up without my parents knowing it? Just wondering;

Need more advice =[

[fizzo]

Hi Alex

Firstly, before I say anything, you do not have AIDS. Aids comes after years of having HIV. The symptoms you have could be related to several infections/diseases so don't conclude that you have HIV either. There are also many other STDs out there, which a curable...but don't conclude that you have any of these either. When you think you have a disease a lot of the time you will subconsciously attribute all and any strange feeling and/or medical symptoms to that disease that you have subconsciously self-diagnosed.

Your best bet is to go for a general sexual health checkup with your GP...

God Bless

[AlexIL]

Someone please give me opinions..im really scared =\

[AlexIL]

Additional info i just noticed i have some lighter skin color on my penis; Idk if this was here before but i just noticed it now :|