my first and last threesum!

[dubiousindallas]

I tested negative a year ago (and have done nothing in the meantime to compromise that).  I had a threesum a few days ago with a woman who tested negative in November.  The other guy wore a condom.  I just watched, except for a brief interlude of kissing her.  She had given him oral, but without his ejaculation.  I am concerned that my sicky feeling (achy, headache--no fever, no rash, no sore throat) that began about 4 days after this sexual episode could suggest that I was exposed to his precum in her mouth when she and I kissed.  I realize that kissing and oral sex are independently low-risk activities.  But, then again, I feel like crap.  Should I test eventually?

[Teak]

You had no risk.

[dubiousindallas]

I still feel bad--malaise, loss of appetite, churning stomach, bowel issues, yawning, loss of desire to exercise.  I began to get these symptoms 4 days after the episode, as I explain above, and it has now been a total of 8 days.  Are you (Lizzie or other experts) certain that kissing her with his precum in her mouth is no-risk?  I have sensitive (but at the time non-bleeding) gums.
I am rarely sick.  I've read a good deal about oral-sex risks, and they are obviously low, but, then again, I am seeking to explain the coincidence of my symptoms and the sexual contact I described.  I am no expert in evaluating who should get tested (in light of varying degrees of risk associated with their behavior).  Other views would be welcome.

[LIZZIE LOU]

kssing and oral sex are NO risk activities.   testing is not warranted.