2 months ago I swapped oral sex with another man. shortly after I had chills and tingly skin, occasional night sweats, but no fever or any other symptoms. I am married and was one of those curiosity things. I just want to get back to normal but I have been worried sick since. He said he had recently been tested and was negative and the only other contact he had between testing and our encounter had also necently tested neg. Everything I've read says there is a miniscule to no chance that I could get HIV if he was in fact not negative. I took the Home Access test after 32 days and was neg, however I'm still not sleeping. I've read the HIV facts sheet on this site which says there is no way to get HIV from oral sex, but then there are those who say there is small chance. Any advice?