please help

[worried_100]

Dear members of the forum
I had anal sex with a guy on 12th march.I was a virgin and it was my first time. He used a condom but after 3 or 4minutes of sex we heard a noise and he stoped penetration immediatel he check the condom and sow that it was broke so he changed it and he put a new one. We started again about 10 minutes. After 10 minutes he had  allergy in his penis couz he was allegic sometimes from condoms so he took out the condom and we stoped having sex. We just kissed each other. Latter he put a new condom and we started again but he noticed that the condom was broke again and he stoped immediately  penetration . he took of the condom and we stoped  having sex that night couz he had not more condoms We just kissed. I know that a broken condom is a risk.
PLease help  my questions are:
1-How hight is  my risk?
2should i get tested?
About symtoms that I was checking for, like a crazy
. 1-My fever was from 36.8 -37.1 max in different period of the day that I checked my fever. is this a symptom of primary HIV ?
2-still now I had no rash or lymph nodes?
3-No diarrea
4-no loss of appetite
5-no sore  throat or mouth sores
6-no genital herpes
7-only headache that started  about 13 days latter from a posible expoasure.

Is only headache that sometimes stops and sometimes continues with a fever from 36.8 until 37.1max(37.1 was only one time last night) symtoms of a primary HIV infectiom?
Please help I am really scared

[worried_100]

Thank you very much Mrs. I started to have headache about 10 days from a possible hiv virus, but I had not fever max fever was 37.1 last night and right now my fever is 36.8 . Still now I had not diarrhea swollen lymph nodes rash fever ,thrush  or lost of appetite.My weight was 64 kg and about 6 days from a possible HIV virus was 62 kg,today I check my weight again and I gainned 1 kg , so my weight is now 63 kg.

Thank you very much for your time Mrs

[LIZZIE LOU]

NO

[worried_100]

is headache without fever a symptom of primaty HIV infection

[worried_100]

no I did not used google . but is that possible to have a headache that is not a very common symptom and not to have fever in commbination with rash becouse fever mean that the body is fighting an infection.
I really appreciate your advice but i am scared of having that test becouse it was my first time of sex.

[kumar007]

maybe its just a ordinary headache...
just get tested alright..
dont google up symptoms..

[worried_100]

I am really scared does the symtoms like  headache without fever or lymph nodes that are very very common mean primary HIV. becouse about 96% of HIV positive people show fever

[kumar007]

1- failed condom carries a risk
2- yes
3- symptoms dont diagnose hiv..many people in this forum come with all kinds of symptoms but they test negative for hiv

test at 6-8 weeks for a good indication of your status
test again at 3 months for a conclusive result