possible ars symptoms?

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hi i am a 25 year old heterosexual took trip to vietnam from dec 30-jan 21 i had 4 sexual encounters all were protected THAT I REMEMBER 2 oral and 2 vaginal when i came back to the U.S. 1 week later i started having hot flashes frequent urination and a little burning while urinating no discharge went to doctor did a urine sample i had white blood cells in my urine he sent it out and had it cultured no infection do urine tests detect stds? 3 weeks after i returned from vietnam i starting experencing a stuffy nose very sweaty palms and hot flashes night sweats about 5 days sore groins sore throat i felt very hot in room tempature loss of appetite white coating on my tongue lost of taste heart palpations fatigue,muscle aches i went to my doctor did blood tests for mono,whitebloodcell count,thyroid,sedimintation test show mild inflamation everything else normal. 5 weeks later itchy tiny red dots rash on my hands face back and chest took benadryl it went away 6 weeks tired sinus itchy throat hotflashes sore neck back and legs chest congestion muscle spasm left eyebrow. Now 6 weeks my wife 1 month pregnant broke out with a itchy red rash all over her back chest neck palms of her hands stomach some red lines the rest are raised and blotchy she has a sorethroat congestion cough and chills no fever went to doctor they said she has hives one encounter i was intoxicated the sexworker came to my room we had protected vaginal sex and she stayed the night i am extremely worried because when im a sleep i tend have sex half a sleep and dont even realize it. the other vaginal encounter was protected but when i washed my penis i smelled her vaginal fluids she adjusted my penis during intercourse i am also uncircumsized what are my chances of being infected if i had sleep sex unprotected one time unprotected for less than 10-15 minutes? if i was infected what are the chances i infected my wife? are the symptoms and time frame i am giving you of me and my wife sound like early symptoms of hiv?  im so scared i just noticed a rash on my neck with a raised bump what could this be???

snippets69 · Answer

Dude...It's been 8 weeks. Go get yourself tested... Plus IF you had unprotected sex (sounds like a big if to me), the chances of you getting HIV IF she had it are 1 in 2000. But you still MAY of exposed yourself, so go get tested.