saliva fingering HIV risk?

[lady316]

Plese can you tell me  my partner licked his finger before fingering my vaginal, is this a risk ? My partner is HIV+

Thank you

[lady316]

Thank you for replies I feel reassured.

As for sexual intercourse I don't think I am ready for that yet, trying to take one step at a time.

[vijay2007]

hiv is a very weakly transmited virus and dies as soon it comes to air contact  so dont  worry  and practice safe sex we have only one life to live

[Teak]

Then those website are giving out incorrect information.

[lady316]

I know and i am really trying, some websites say there has been some people who have contracted HIV this way.  I don't feel I am over the top about stuff, we have had a few weeks now where I have not thought about my risk. It's been over 20 years since I felt this way about about anyone for many years and that is pretty scary without the status

[Teak]

You've been coming here long enough to know that saliva is not infectious.

[LIZZIE LOU]

saliva is NOT infectious

[lady316]

Not sure why  i got this reply it is the first time I have asked this question. We have an appointment in two weeks with the health advisor. I am feeling anxious about the risk. I do care for this man everything is great except for his status which I am trying very hard, the past few weeks I have been fine until this, I tried to find the answer but couldn't.

You have to understand I have never known anyone with HIV before,

[Teak]

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