HIV from a trans with a neo-vagina?

[nickr266]

I was dating a MTF transgender individual from thailand for about 4 months. I had no idea that it used to be a male. I thought it was always a female. One night we had unprotected sex 3 times in one night (individual had a neo-vagina but I thought it was a real vagina). I thought it was a female so I thought my risk was low. About a week or 2 later I developed a bad sore throat and then cold symptoms that lasted for several weeks. About a month or 2 later I developed diarrhea that lasted for about a week straight. It finally revealed the truth to me about what it was and I have become very worried since I feel like I had symptoms that may be HIV symptoms. It refused to go get tested when I asked it to and has since dissapeared. So I have no idea regarding it's HIV status but found it's behavior to be very suspicious. I am so worried now and cannot seem to find good information regarding the risk of contracting HIV from a trans with a neo-vagina... I am curious if I am at an extremely high risk given the circumstances?

[nickr266]

Looks like I'm neg but have to wait a week for other STDs. Most concerned about hep C... The nurse told me I should be worried about hepatitis with someone from an Asian country but I thought hepatitis is hard to get through sex? But this is kind of a different situation since this is a trans... Thoughts?

[RubyWitch]

She is NOT an "it!"

[RainLover71]

There is no such window period as 6 Months,3 Months is more than enough time.

[nickr266]

Is it 3 months? I thought it is recommended to wait 6 months? If there are no cracks or breaks in the penis, how does the giver usually acquire HIV? Isn't the risk pretty low?

[Teak]

Symptoms or lack of symptoms will never tell you your status. The only way to know your status is by testing. You can obtain your conclusive test result 3 months post exposure. Use condom and you won't put yourself at risk for HIV and most STDs.