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[scaredfemale388]

I am so sorry to ask question again. My partner that I am currently with and I just broke it off due to him having a relationship he hid from me. When I confronted him that he has cheated on her numerous,times. Me being as paranoid as I am went for full std panel and came back negative. I know all that we have done was oral due,to him saying he has male troubles and cant perform...now it has been four weeks sincd that negative testing and I have the chills, sore throat, fever that fluctuates between 101.3 to 99.6 then it goes to normal range and back up, I am taking tylenol and drinking plenty of fluids and resting. I also have one single lymph node in my chin/neck area swollen with no pain . Doc says its just a virus and it should go away but it just fluctuates and im worried sick over it. I know u all are not counselors and I have posted a lot but can this be early stages. I am panicking this site says no,risk for oral but planned parenthood said it is ,just to much conflicting info. Sorry again for posting. Just worried about fever, sore throat and one single swollen lymph node in chin/neck only... Sorry for posting again you guys are awesome

[scaredfemale388]

Thanks again teak. You are a great person andi appreciate you taking tome to respond to my post. I just panicked when I got the fever and single swollen lymph node under the chin. It was a week or so after last oral episode and finding out he has a girlfriend and other woman made me panick more. But now fever is gone just feels like a regular cold now. Thanks again for your patience with me.

[Teak]

HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child

[Healthadvisory]

It's the anxiety causing these symptoms, you don't have HIV

[scaredfemale388]

It also sore to turn my head