You need to test at 3 months to get a conclusive test. South Africa has one of the highest populations infected with HIV. HIV1 is more prevalent than HIV 2 so no the information your doctor gave you was incorrect.
This is true that HIV is not easy to catch, but this fact remains there that unprotected vaginal or anal (condom failure or total slippage is the same by definition) sex is the primary source of transmission via sexual route.
As Teak very rightly mentioned, you got yourself involved in a country, with very high rate of HIV infected polulation, the only option for you is, to relax, calm down (what happened has happened) and wait for 3 month mark to get a conclusive result. We wish you all the best. HIV 2 is dominent in western africa, not in the southern part of the continent.
Well he found a nurse on campus in stellenbosch that didn't mind "breaking the rules " for me and telling me he was negative. And she kind of scolded us lol And she let me call her back at her office. I took a test to the other day and it was negative but ill go back in like 3 or 4 weeks to be sure. But not really worried anymore...thanks for...helping me worry guys? lol No but I am not worried anymore :)