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very anxious help me please!

2 days ago, i encountered oral sex with an individual and he claimed he was 100% disease free and also said he tested negative 1 week ago.. im currently entering a battle with my paranoia! my question is we was both naked and he was on top of me, im scared of he entered me without me knowing, is that possible? do i have hiv? shall i get a hiv blood test? i told him if we did any risky stuff and he said know, im just scared! i have a runny nose and feel tired!! please help me am i infected? he told me not to worry we did nothing too risky but im very scareed how would i know if he entered me?! this is my first time ever and im very very axious person and curiosity got the best of me that day :(


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Hi there. You've been given a very clear answer that oral sex is not considered a risk and if there were penetration, you'd feel it.  Therefore, since you didn't, you did not have penetration, so no risk.  We are closing this thread as there is nothing more to add to that.  good luck

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Sir thank you so much for you're help! I vowed to never do stuff like that again ever ever again,  if I go for a needle test in 4 weeks will the result be conclusive? Again I didn't feel anything trying to penetrate anal wise. I'm just a bit nervous ?
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i understand your anxiety... but if there was no penetration then there is no need for a test..
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oral sex carries no risk of hiv transmission.. you definitely would have known if he entered you..
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So nothing for me to worry about? I'm constantly battling this 'what if' in my head it's hard !! Worth a test ? Or will it be a waste of time
as i said... no risk for the oral sex.. on the penetrative part, only you would know !
let me put it this way..looking at your profile, i would assume that the "penetration" you meant was anal sex and there is no mention of condoms.  If he had penetrated you, you DEFINITELY would have felt it....
no penetration = no risk
penetration with condom = no risk
penetration without condom = risk

What he told me is that there's no point on worrying! Maybe guilt is killing me? He told me to relax as we did not have any risky activity other than oral sex never experienced anal sex and we never entered that stage!  So overall no point of test ? Stress? Plesse it's a constant battle
yes.. no risk = no test
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