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dear sir/madam

i had sexual relation with 3 girls in the last 2years. All were protected vaginal sex but unprotected oral( both giving and receiving). my last exposure was 1 and half year ago. after 4 weeks of my last encounter, i experienced high fever and headache. now i have all the symptoms. rashes all over body, blurred vision, swollen nodes behind ears and on back, weight loss, sore throat. im experiencing these symptoms for last one year. im really worried. should i need test? please help
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You never had an exposure. If you feel unwell see your doctor, they have nothing to do with HIV.
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thnx for ur reply sir.
i know u r not discussing about symptoms here. But i have one doubt. should ARS symptoms last for this much time? (im experiencing it for last 1 year)
7613937 tn?1393964502
ARS cannot stay this long. Hardly 1-2 weeks. See your doctor for this symptoms, but nothing of this are related to HIV.
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thx for reply..
so i do not need hiv testing for this specific incident right? i want to add one more doubt. during my last sex, while withdrawing penis i found that condom stuck in vagina. is that a risk?
7613937 tn?1393964502
again no risk. Slipped condom can happen any time but it is better if you use the correct size.

for this specific incident there is nothing to worry for hiv and stop searching internet for hiv. its not going to help. you have already been told that you should not concern for HIV and you need to trust, else your own money own time.

Hope this will be helpful.
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thnx ...
feel better nw..:).., i should stop searchng on net....:)
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Searching the internet for hiv symptom can never be overdone,life is to precious than to allow "lack of information" or a 5minutes sex to steal it away from u,i will encourage u to keep pushing and scrutinize properly even if it will take u your life time so long as your life is concern
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The OP never had an exposure.
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mr teak
what is OP  means? i didnt get.. sorry
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mr susceptiblee..
what are you saying? u want me to keep searchng in net??
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OP=original poster
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mr teak..
i consult with my doctor about these symptms.. did some blood tests. all are normal( except bilurubin level 3.8) . i didnt tell him about my hiv anxiety... if all r normal why these swollen nodes on my back n skin rashes all over body.. i have severe headache too... really worried of these symptoms.. and im afraid of hiv testing.. what should i do?
7613937 tn?1393964502
check all this with your own doctor, but forget HIV. many times we said this to you, but if you don't believe us then you have all rights to do what you want but don't come again with another ifs and buts.
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sorry for asking..
... me too from india... u joined this community just 0ne month befre right? how can u clearly gve advices about hiv questions? are u an expert on this? or just a member like me? just want to know.. nothing else..
thnx for ur advise..
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im sorry mr teak....

but i dnt have any idea about these symptoms.. i never ever experienced these before.. rashes and blotches all over body, if i scratch or press in my body its turn red and remaining like that for 1-2 days.. i cant look in to lights..swollen nodes all over my back and behind ears..
i know these symptoms may be not because of infection..  and u r not discussing about symptoms here.. but im worried because i experiencing these after my last encounter...

i did many blood tests as recommend by my doctor( except hiv) all are ok.. thats why im worried now.. if i dont have other problems in blood, y these symptoms still exists....:(
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Whatever is going on with you has nothing to do with HIV.
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thnx teak...
3147776 tn?1549549410
Please don't hijack other members' threads.  Off-topic posts have been removed.  Let's focus on the original poster's concerns instead.
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i cant bear these symptoms.. so im going to test tommrw.... ill let u knw my status.. plz pray for me
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im sorry.. just want to let u knw...
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please update your status with out fail ...thanks
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