I've been wondering where you've been?!!
I think Randy Pausch said it perfectly: "We can't change the cards we're dealt, just the way we play the hand."
He tells his children, "You have to decide if you're a Tigger or an Eeyore."
I'm trying to be a Tigger : )
Welcome back, I was worried about you. I am glad to hear you are better. All you can do is take it one day at a time and try to put it out of your head a little bit each day. I'm with Connie-let's be Tiggers!