I am a little surprised that the doctor suggested a pacemaker associated with an AV node ablation.
I am only a layperson, but I had the impression that for younger people, that was a last resort procedure, as it leaves the heart in atrial fibrillation, although it slows the ventricles. It used to be the treatment, but that was before less drastic measures were available.
My impression was that first, a different class of meds than your Mom is on would be tried - Flecainide, Tikosyn, among others. If those didn't work, possibly an ablation for afib, but not the kind that zaps the AV node, rather the kind that gets rid of the electrical impulse places in the heart that originate afib. The latter is a more subtle operation, however, more difficult for the doc and may take longer, I think.
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I am particularly surprised because D. McWilliams has mentioned before that he studied with Dr. Andrea Natale, probably the best doctor in the U.S. for the kind of ablation I am talking about.
Perhaps your Mom's age rule out these other possibilities, but I would ask explicitly about that, if this were my Mom or myself.
The issue is often one of controlling the heart rate. We will first try to control the heart rate with one medication. If that does not work, a second medication is added. Sometimes even a third medication is needed. Cardizem (diltiazem) is known to cause swelling at higher doses, it seems elderly women are common group to have this problem. One option is to use a medication called digoxin to help slow down the rate and decrease the dose of diltiazem.
It is an individualized treatment plan, but there are only a few options available to help slow down heart rates. If people have side effects to the medications, sometimes the best option is to place a pacemaker and do a simple procedure (AV node ablation) that makes you pacemaker dependent. That why the pacemaker is in full control of the heart rate and the medication doses can be decreased. I have noticed that older women are often the ones that have the most medications side effects with atrial fibrillation and are more frequently the patients that end up with a pacemaker.
I hope this helps and wish you well.