With these medical problems, you son should be on medicaid. Finances should not be an issue. He needs to see doctor that specializes in congenital heart disease in children. I do not have experiences with cases like this -- I am trained with adults only. Are you near any academics centers? They are probably the best place to start.
I am truely sorry to here about your situation. I hope and pray things turn out good for your son and your family.
Also just to add, often hospitals will let a parent order food for their "kid" and it will be charged to your insurance. So the only issue should be gas which you may be able to get a debit card for through the county. All of this along with tax write offs should help your financial situation tremendously.
As you have NF (saw your profile) you may want to look into Noonan syndrome as it is realted to NF and many patients have a NF/Noonan like disease (doesn't fit into either category) and Noonan syndrome has a high rate of heart defects.
The reason I know all this is I to have NF with another disease which is realted to NF. A lot of research is being done in this area and it may be worth noting. (not trying to increase your worry, but often having a reason for a sickness (or name of a disease) can be of some relife .
By chance do you have NF? There are charities and organizations which can help you out. Ronald McDondal House is one of them which provide free lodging for parents when their children are in the hospital. A childrens hospital or ward should allow parents to spend the night and may even have a quiet room just for yourself.
If your son has a social worker he or she should be able to get you in touch with the right people to get you signed up for these programs. If not call your local deaprtment of social services
I am sorry to hear that Michelle, I wish you and your family the best.
It Is not the medical bills that are the issues, the insurance pays for that. it is the $$ for the trip down there the $$ for ga, food and a place to stay. I don't work due to have tumors from a disease and my husband works to support 6 people. If $$ wasn't an issue to cover the trip then I would be else where in a heart beat. (no pun intended)
Michelle
If you live in Vermont you should be able to find a teaching hospital or university hospital somewhere in the northeast. Johns Hopkins is excellent and I assume Harvard is too. Harvard would be a quick trip from Vermont. If you have a private insurance along with medicaid his bills should be covered 100%.
In Wisconsin there was something called the Katy Beckett Program which was part of medicaid and given to children with illness which are deemed terminal or have a high likelyhood of producing significant morbidity and/or mortality, I am sure vermont has sonmething like this as well.
If you have primary and secondary insurance, why are the medical bills high? I would have thought that would cover it.
An academic center is a university hospital like Johns Hopkins, University of Pittsburgh Med center, Harvard, etc. They tend to have pediatric cardiologist and sometimes even pediatric heart rhythm specialists.
I have to be honest I have no ideas what an academic center is? is that the same thing as clinical hospitals? Yes he has Cigna and Medicaid, the medical bills are the issue, it is the cost of getting to another place we are a family of 6 with just one income due to the fact of Chris being in and out of the hopsital so many times and the medical issues I have.
I am sorry to ahve bothered you I wan't sure who was and who was not a pediactir doctor
it amazes me how much a child's body functions differently then an adults
thank anyways
Michelle