Get some colace. It is a stool softener, not a laxative. It will not MAKE you go, but will soften stool to make it less difficult and painful. Get some otc preparation h suppositories and try those to see if they shrink it and heal you up. If you see a doc, that is all they will probably do anyway. They will give you a script for suppositories, which,wink wink, are the same ones you buy over the counter. Even a little bleeding is no big deal. If it does not heal after that, then go. I suspect it will if you have no history of this problem.