divorce is just a word, you are obviously still there for him where it counts, don't fret that one too much, or delay the process if you can until all the results are in.
the AIDS test is done for free in many clinics, and Dept Of health, they don't take long to come back with a result. He can always have it done at the next blood work.
don't forget to take care of yourself also, stress is not good for ANYone, healthy or not.
take time out for you and try not to internalize too much of his suffering.
I agree with Ivette on the "D" word... & taking care of yourself too!
Divorce is just a descriptive word for a process... it doesn't mean that we stop caring, or don't still love someone.... Sometimes it simply means we can no longer "live" with them!
As per HIV test.... I too just assumed that they automatically run those test, & was surprised to find out that they don't.... Just like with the HCV, it's a specific test that must be requested. So I requested mine last year just for peace of mind!
You are obviously a loving & nurturing person to be able to put your indifferences causing the split up on the back shelf, & I am sure your hubby appreciates you!
Hang in there, & let us know how those biopsy results turn out... but most importantly... don't forget about yourself along the way!
Thanks for the support! I am really depressed. I just don't know what to think. Is his really bad or does everyone go through this? Between the Porphyia,the iron too high,the plobotomy, the police pulling him over because he looked suspecious (because he has to stay covered because of the Porphyia),the open wounds, his company shut there doors on Friday with no warning and now I'm sure we will have the Health Insurance issues and worst of all the physical man he has become! This has been one knock down after another. When is all going to STOP! I am trying to be strong but I cry every day! I guess I should be grateful because it could be worse. They are going to start plobotimizing him again so I'm sure they will do the Aids test. I will let you know the results on Thursday. Say a prayer! :-) Thanks again for the support!