I noticed your post earlier and just want to tell you that the only reason I didn't reply is because I don't know anything about the problems your husband is facing. I would guess that some other people here on the forum may also be at a loss.
That said, there are some amazing people here with knowledge and experience who might be able to lend you the support you need.
I want to send you my best wishes and sincere regrets that I can't be of any help.
I wonder if you would find more people who have experienced these things at he medhelp liver transplant board. My husband has cirrhosis also but it hasn't progressed to the same point.
I will say a prayer for you both.
I had end stage liver disease and had a lot of weird labs that required medications to correct an imbalance. I had ascites and very swollen feet, legs, and hands. This is caused the the leakage form the liver that is unable to process and filter like it used to due to fibrosis (scarring).
Is your husband on the transplant list?
If he had been hospitalized for a intestinal blockage due to an abdominal hernia why haven't they operated on the hernia. I suspect is platelets are too low and that would make the surgery dangerous, and the likelihood of the hernia returning due to the ascites is high? Maybe I am assuming too much and the intestinal block is caused by something else.
Other symptoms I had were cramps (sometimes in my whole body), itching, exhaustion and confusion from the ammonia in my system. I took medicines for all of these symptoms.
You husband needs to discuss the transplant with a good hepatologist. Or just as good call a local hospital that performs liver transplants and go see them.
Thank you for your comments. Yes they have not operated on his hernia for fear the stitches will pop from another ascites extention. He does have the itching, his fingernails are pure white, I don't know about cramps, but his right lung is also fills up with fluid and he needs to get it pumped out periodically He has had a cough for 18 months straight. Went in to have his ascites pumped and came out with a cough. It has never gone away. He coughs so hard he vomits violently as much as 3 times a week. He writes that off as gag reflex. Your comment on ammonia is interesting. He is allergic to ammonia. He can't eat any shellfish as a result. He is also suffering from insomnia. I will investigate to see if his Dr is a hepatologist. If no one locally......we have the Mayo Clinic 3 hours away. He hate doctors and would rather not go than receive bad news. It is difficult for me when he cancels appointments. We had no insurance for a year so our bills are astronomical. We have it now but he still cancels appointments. I appreciate advise on here so I can take matters into MY OWN hands and see that he gets the treatment he needs.
Thank you very much for your kind words. I need this place to learn more about what is happening to him so I can understand. His answer after I ask how his appointment went (when he goes) is "FINE". Ummmmm not good enough!!
Thank for your response. I hope your husband never gets to where mine is right now. My thoughts are with you.