said,,"also my husband would not approve of my involvement with any form of "socializing" computer or not."
What!! Please tell me you're not serious. I thought I achieved svr from my womans lib virus , but I guess I still have some residual virons floating around,,because that statement made me feel a few aches and pains.
I hope you're kidding, if not, perhaps you can get someone to talk to your husband.
wish you the best.
Your husband would "not approve" of any form of socializing?
You mean he won't allow you to have friends? Maybe I misread your intent but it sounds like extremely controlling behavior on behalf of your husband. No one should have to live like that with someone dictating if they can socialze or not!
sorry to make it sound so bad. thats just the way he is. he's not violent to me or anything, he is just extremely jealous and a control freak. after 25 years of marriage i have learned to ignore it the best i can. it makes me really appreciate my job 9-5 mon to friday. things will change when my kids aren't so dependant on my being there all the time. i will get the chance to have time to visit with my best friend other than on my lunch break a few times a year. we all have crosses to bear. mine is not so bad. thanks for the concern.
besides i am not kooky. just don't like to rock the boat so to speak.
AWWWWWW Rev...do you have ANY idea how much you are loved here UNCONDITIONALLY???? I do :)
I'm glad to hear you are able to ignore him when he is like that. You're right we all have our crosses to bear. But I hope things get better for you soon.You sound like a very nice girl.
HAHAHAHA...me too... weeeeeeeeeee...LOL. I didn't take my psych med last night, so today outta be fun. Don't think I will take them anymore...I like having an UP to the "swing of things". I can't believe that he only prescribed a "mood stablizer" instead of an AD. That darn thing just keeps me stablized at mad and depressed. UHG. But if I don't take them, I'll end up getting in trouble for what they call poop threads.
I never even thought of sugesting to anyone not to take THEIR psych med, and if you or anyone else thinks I did go back and read more carfuly. I was very clear over and over what I was saying. But if it fits then go ahead and live in your own little nut world
LOL...GEEE!!! I wasn't at ALL referring to anything about that...I was just stating the truth about my stupid meds...that yeah...for today, I am living in my own little nut world. I know what you said...gee, don't have to get so defensive...
SORRY Yes I am defensive, Sorry. The nut comment was not about state of mind but of not making clear of what I'm sure I made clear in that funny thread
It's all good...and YEAHY!!!! Your almost done aren't you!!! I'll bet the anxiety is EMENSE the last two weeks!!! Maybe you could get an anti-anxiety med so you can make it two weeks without changing your dose schedule??!!! IM JUST JOKING!!!!!!!!!
I>>AM>>JUST>>JOKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (((hugs))) Mkeela.
your posting was perfectly clear to your meaning to me.
I am sooooooo sorry, please accept my appology. How rude was that of me (posting random things in your thread). Im just having a tough day today, and my mind is all over the place, I shouldn't even be posting...good grief.
I really hope txing w/out alot of support will be ok for you. This can be so hard sometimes. I just thought that you weren't going to be back on this thread because of lack of access...and I guess I am just sooo sorry. Please forgive me.
Oh, and I started to post a support comment for you, but I got lost in the other comments, and then I couldn't remember what you wrote, and then I posted to Rev, and just completely got lost...I am SOOOO sorry. This is my brain on TX. :(
You dont have to be physically violent to be in an abusive relationship...social abuse, emotional abuse, financial, spiritual abuse are all extremely damaging to your self esteem and feelings of self worth. There is NO excuse for that sort of behaviour.
agreed completely, not to mention what that sort of treatment of another human being is doing to the children exposed to it. they are watching their father treat their mother that way, there does not need to be an obvious bruise, it is damaging the child and creating resentment.
I am living proof that words said to your mother by her supposed lifetime partner will stay with you until Alzheimer's kick in, or maybe it is so strong it might be the only freaking memory left.
Non physical mistreatment of another person, especially someone you are close to and feel helpless to aid in any way, can be an open wound for years to come.
children know more than we think
and after all this time I thought i was the only crazy canuck around still nice to meet you
Daryl Dewayne Derail... LoL..
Actually the first time I saw the name I thought about you too!
Good To See You... Hope This Finds You & Your's Doing well!!!
haha Good Seeing you Derail!! Hope everything is going great for you!