Hello, I have looked at multiple answers on here some help assure me others not, so I thought I would give my exact details and see what responses I get and my need for further testing. I am a male.
On July 24th, I gave an unprotected blow job to another male and some ejaculate got in my mouth I tried to spit it out but not sure that I didn't swallow some. He also gave me oral sex while also inserting a finger in my ***.
I started feeling tingling on my penis/balls and thighs and in my mouth/toungue/lips about 2 days later. By Thursday or Friday July 28th, I had a sore throat. The throat is very red and mostly on my soft pallets and throat. I went to an immediate care on Saturday July 29th who did a strep test (rapid and long) both were negative. I told them I was scared of possible STDs they did urine tests (dirty and clean) both were negative. But prophylaxis treatment of 1g azithromycin and.a shot of ceftriaxone for glossitis they gave me an antifungal (difulcan).
So all this came back negative. However my sore throat is still red with little dots on the hard pallet (note I do not have tonsils) as of August 11th. That is 17/18 days after the oral sex. I have not had any blisters on lips, and none in my mouth that I am aware of. Part of my soft pallet looks like it has lines and general redness (possibly yellowing of the hard pallet? Never looked that closely at my mouth/throat).
My penis I keep looking at over and over. Occasionally it feel like it is tingling or burning, also get that feeling ony thighs or balls too.
When I look with reading glasses on and under a reading lamp the skin just below the head on top of my penis can look shiny and if I look really closely I see some very tiny (like pin needle small) white spots, not many 2/3 at different locations on this skin. Not painful to the touch.
So in all I am wondering what is the likelihood this is herpes? Oral and genital? It's been 18 days since initial possible infection. The throat seems like it's been red and it's very mildly sore- more just swollen for too long for a normal cold. I have had some minor nasal discharge.
The doctor looked at the throat and just said it's likely viral. Doctor said my lymph nodes in my throat were not swollen.
To my knowledge other than looking at my penis on day 5 post possible exposure they didn't screen for herpes.